Port recent changes from tcnative about conscrypt HOT 5 OPEN

@normanmaurer @Scottmitch @davidben any other PRs that I should absorb from netty land?

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netty/netty-tcnative#211. I haven't looked at the new conscrypt code but generally everything that is not cleanup should be interesting and at least worth a look.

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@Scottmitch thanks!

Going forward, It should probably be a goal for conscrypt to make the engine as much of a copy-and-paste from Netty as possible in order to allow us to easily absorb multiple changes all at once.

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sgtm ... should make sharing easier in both directions (not sure if you are actively developing conscrypt or just happy to take Netty's improvements).

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We will be actively developing conscrypt, but I expect most of the syncing will be netty->conscrypt at least at the beginning. We also eagerly look forward to contributions from @normanmaurer and @Scottmitch 😜

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